Welcome to Raremanfit

BE
RARE.
BE FIT.

It's rare to find a man who's truly fit — physically, mentally, spiritually, relationally. That's the standard we build toward here.

5
Years Sober
100+
Lives Impacted
5
Pillars of Fitness
0
Shortcuts
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Physically Fit
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Mentally Fit
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Spiritually Fit
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Relationally Fit
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Financially Fit

What is Raremanfit

MOST MEN ARE
SURVIVING.
NOT THRIVING.

They're functioning — going to work, coming home, grinding through the week. But deep down, something is off. The drinking hasn't stopped. The body is declining. The relationships are straining. The purpose is missing.

Raremanfit exists for the man who's done settling. Who's ready to face every hard thing head-on and build a life that actually reflects the man he knows he can be.

My Story

I was the
worst.
Then I wasn't.

In 2018 I hit rock bottom. Failed business. Dead broke. Alcohol controlling every decision. I had to pack up my family, leave California, and move in with my father-in-law just to survive.

I realized alcohol wasn't just a bad habit — it was robbing me of my real potential and sending a dangerous message to everyone watching: my wife, my kids, my friends, my business partners.

"I decided to face every hard thing head-on — sober. That decision changed everything."

5 years later I've rebuilt it all. Health. Family. Finances. Faith. Purpose. I've quietly helped dozens of men do the same — for free — because I knew what it felt like to need someone who'd actually been there.

Now I'm making it official. I only share what has truly worked for me. No theory. No shortcuts. Just the truth of what I lived.

  • 2018 — The Bottom
    Business failure, financial ruin, alcohol-driven decisions. Forced to relocate family. Lowest point of my life.
  • 2019 — The Decision
    Made the choice to get sober. Not rehab — sheer decision and discipline. Began rebuilding from zero.
  • 2020–2022 — The Rebuild
    Rebuilt health, finances, family life and spiritual foundation simultaneously. Started helping others informally.
  • 2022 — Raremanfit Launched
    Started the Instagram page to share what was working. Fitness, diet, philosophy, sobriety — real life, real results.
  • Today — 5 Years Sober
    Coaching men through the same transformation. Life is extraordinary. And the best is still ahead.

Coaching

READY TO BECOME
A RARE MAN?

I work with a small number of men at a time. The work is personal, direct, and built on what has actually worked in my own life. Choose the level that's right for where you are right now.

The Foundation
$297
per month · 2-month minimum

For men who need structure and accountability to get started.


  • 2 × 45-min calls per month
  • Messaging support Mon–Fri
  • Custom 30-day action plan
  • Weekly check-in prompts
Inner Circle
$1,200
per month · 3-month minimum

Full access. Fastest results. For the man who's all in.


  • Unlimited calls (up to 2/week)
  • Priority messaging 7 days/week
  • Full custom life strategy
  • Direct accountability check-ins
  • Business & life decision support

Not sure? Start with a Clarity Call.

One hour. No pressure. An honest conversation about where you are and where you want to go. The best first step for most men.

$97

Application

Apply for Coaching

Takes 3 minutes. Answer honestly — there are no wrong answers.

Tell me about yourself.

Step 1 of 8

What's your current relationship with alcohol or substances?

Be real with me. This is the starting point, not a judgment.

Step 2 of 8

What area of your life feels most out of control?

Pick the one that hurts the most.

Step 3 of 8

What does your life look like 6 months from now if nothing changes?

Don't sugarcoat it. Honesty here means better help from me.

Step 4 of 8

Have you tried to make these changes before?

I want to understand what's gotten in your way — not judge your past.

Step 5 of 8

Why now? What brought you here today?

Something made you fill this out. Tell me what it was.

Step 6 of 8

Which option are you most interested in?

No commitment yet — just helps me prepare.

Step 7 of 8

If we're the right fit, are you ready to start within 2 weeks?

I only work with men who are ready to move — not someday, now.

Step 8 of 8

Application Received.

It takes courage to be this honest. That already tells me something about you.

I'll review your application personally and reach out within 48 hours to schedule your call. Check your inbox — including spam.

Content & Insights

REAL TALK.
REAL RESULTS.

No fluff, no hype. Just what's actually worked — in sobriety, fitness, mindset, relationships and building a life you're proud of.

Sobriety
The Lie Alcohol Told Me About Who I Was
For years I thought drinking was part of my personality. I was wrong. Here's what sobriety revealed about the man I actually was underneath.
5 min read · Sobriety
Fitness
The Only 4 Lifts You Actually Need
You don't need a complicated program. You need consistency with the basics. Here's the simple framework that transformed my body and saved my time.
4 min read · Training
Mindset
Why Most Men Never Change (And How to Be Different)
Change isn't about motivation. Motivation is temporary. Here's the real mechanism behind lasting transformation — and why so few men ever find it.
6 min read · Mindset
Family
Being the Man Your Family Needs You to Be
Your wife and kids are watching everything. Not your words — your actions. Here's how I rebuilt trust at home after I became someone worth trusting.
5 min read · Relationships
Philosophy
Stoicism Saved My Sobriety
Marcus Aurelius didn't know me, but he described my situation perfectly. Three stoic principles that became the backbone of my recovery and my life.
7 min read · Philosophy
Diet
What I Eat in a Day (and Why It Works)
No extreme diets. No supplements stack worth $500/month. Just whole food, disciplined timing, and one principle that keeps it all together.
4 min read · Nutrition

Follow @raremanfit on Instagram for daily content

Shop & Affiliates

WHAT I ACTUALLY
USE & TRUST.

I don't promote anything I haven't personally used and genuinely believe in. Every product here is part of my actual routine. Some links are affiliate links — I'll always tell you when they are.

Nutrition
Athletic Greens (AG1)
My daily non-negotiable. One scoop covers my nutritional baseline so I can focus on eating for performance the rest of the day.
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Training
Rogue Fitness Gear
The only training equipment I trust for durability and performance. Belts, bands, chalk — everything that holds up when you're pushing hard.
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Recovery
LMNT Electrolytes
No sugar. No junk. Just the minerals your body actually needs to recover, think clearly, and stay consistent. I use this daily.
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Books
Meditations — Marcus Aurelius
The book that changed how I think about discipline, struggle, and who I want to be. Every man should read this at least once.
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Books
Can't Hurt Me — David Goggins
If you need proof that a man can rebuild from absolute zero through sheer will, this is the book. I've read it three times.
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Sobriety
This Naked Mind — Annie Grace
One of the most powerful books on alcohol I've come across. Changes how you think about drinking at a subconscious level.
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More recommendations added regularly. Follow @raremanfit for updates.

Contact

LET'S
TALK.

Have a question before applying? Want to connect? Send me a message and I'll get back to you personally within 48 hours.

@
Instagram
@raremanfit
Email
coach@raremanfit.com
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